![]() ![]() Loving Gemini Venus is like loving an alien. Gemini Venus isn’t satisfied taking things as they are. Gemini Venus is not your manic pixie dream girl. Loving Gemini Venus means that you must learn to love change, to accept that life will always bring change, and that relationships that change will be relationships that remain alive. Other times, it means moving into the same bedroom. Sometimes, this involves taking a risk in the relationship structure. Gemini Venus doesn’t want love to die and, so, it expects love to change. Life is a series of changes and, when things stop changing, they die. It is impatient when it feels as though it is expected to be compliant with boredom. Gemini Venus understands that, if life is to be interesting, then it must be made to be interesting. It understands that there is magic in allowing yourself a space to just mess around. It’s simply interested in the multiplicity of sensation. Gemini Venus is a Venus that doesn’t date, doesn’t flirt, and doesn’t fuck with a goal. They can’t wrap their mind around what on earth that could possibly mean.įor Gemini Venus, curiosity is intimacy. They can’t believe that you’re here and with them. When Gemini Venus falls for you, it’s like they can hardly believe that you exist in the way you do at all. It will ask you so many questions that you sometimes start to question whether you exist in the way you assume you do at all. It doesn’t try to build you up into an illusion of a being. Gemini Venus never pretends to understand what it does not understand. Only after the deconstruction is complete can they play with the pieces.Īnd, so, loving Gemini Venus means feeling as though a relationship is perpetually on the verge of both decline and emergency at the same time. They’re interested in relationship deconstruction. Gemini Venus isn’t just interested in relationship anarchy. And you will learn something new with them. ![]() And they will ask you to deconstruct your experience. Tell them anything about how relationships are supposed to go and they will sit there and look at you mouth agape, wondering how on earth you got where you did. Why must people eat on dates? Or kiss each other on the mouths? Why can we not kiss each other on the toes in greeting? Why must we marry our lovers? Why can’t we marry a friend and then fuck an enemy on the first Thursday of every month? Loving a student of intimacy means that you must walk in with no assumptions about how things must be done or about how they need to be done. Loving Gemini Venus is loving a student of intimacy. If they forget to respond to something, it’s likely that they forgot that they need other people in the first place. They assume, first, that they will be very awkward and that they will most likely do the wrong thing and they go from there. ![]() They have no predispositions towards this thing. When they learn new things through love, they can’t wait to share it with you.Īnd Gemini Venus does this because they can’t believe that relationships can exist. They study different relationship structures, anarchist relationships, and play with definitions. When they learn that being around people you love changes your oxytocin levels, they simply can’t believe it. There’s just so much to explore and learn. ![]() It’s a Venus that is deeply curious about relationships, so curious that it freaks out, excited, about all of the new feelings and meanings involved in them. It’s a Venus that questions the purpose of relationship. Gemini Venus is a Venus that must be taught intimacy with slowness and compassion. But that’s not how Gemini Venus always behaves. We complain that Gemini Venus is flighty, that it likes to distance using humor, and that it sometimes finds more comfort with the acquaintance than the friend. There’s a lot out there that laments the avoidance of peregrine Venus placements. Loving Gemini Venus is loving a Venus that remembers what it’s like to have no people, to be the odd one out who no one “gets”, and to simply not look like anyone else who is in the same room as them. Loving Gemini Venus is loving a Venus that feels as though it has nowhere to go. In most cases, Gemini Venus will be an awkward Venus-a Venus without inclusion and without belonging. Gemini Venus is mostly a peregrine Venus (unless it appears between 12º and 17º in which it enjoys dignity by term). Only when a planet is able to find some dignity does it appear to solve its peregrine condition. ![]()
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